Renowned Nigerian author Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie has offered heartfelt advice to young women on the importance of choosing the right life partner, emphasizing that marrying someone kind and supportive can transform their lives.

Speaking at a recent event, the celebrated writer of Half of a Yellow Sun and Americanah encouraged young women to be intentional about who they settle down with, stressing that the quality of one’s partner often shapes the quality of one’s life.

“It’s really important who you choose,” Adichie said. “Young women, choose wisely. Sometimes you can already see that the person you are with isn’t really a good person, but because you’re desperate to get married, you go ahead anyway.”

She urged women not to let societal pressure push them into marrying the wrong person, highlighting that it’s far better to wait for the right partner than to rush into a lifetime commitment with someone who lacks compassion or support.

“The person you choose as your life partner will make a huge difference in your life. Choose somebody who is kind, who is supportive — it will make all the difference,” Adichie advised.

Sharing from her own experience, she added, “I can tell you that I chose well,” underscoring how a healthy, nurturing relationship has positively impacted her own life and career.

Adichie’s words resonate strongly in a world where many still face immense pressure to marry by a certain age. Her message is a powerful reminder that a loving, supportive partnership isn’t just a romantic ideal — it’s a foundation that can determine the course of one’s happiness and success.