The Grade A Customary Court in Mapo, Ibadan, Oyo State, has adjourned the divorce case between Oladipo and his wife, Tosin, after hearing their testimonies. Oladipo accused Tosin of disobedience, associating with bad company, and physically abusing him.

Oladipo claimed that he supported Tosin by setting her up in business on three separate occasions, but said his investments were wasted. He also alleged that Tosin disregarded his instructions and started selling alcoholic drinks against his wishes.

According to Oladipo, a recent disagreement escalated when Tosin assaulted him and tore his clothes. He is seeking the dissolution of their marriage and custody of their child. Additionally, he asked the court to restrain Tosin from threatening or interfering with his private life.

Tosin denied the allegations but consented to the divorce. She explained that their conflicts often revolved around food, stating that her husband only gave her a small allowance to buy cooked meals, which she considered insufficient.

She admitted that her husband had set up businesses for her three times, but she spent the earnings on food because she and their child were often hungry. Tosin also requested custody of their daughter, emphasizing her desire to care for her.

In his testimony, Oladipo said, “My wife has become rebellious and is negatively influenced by bad friends. She disobeys me openly and humiliates me in front of neighbors and friends. I warned her against selling alcoholic drinks, but she ignored me. When I confronted her, she attacked me and tore my clothes. I can no longer tolerate her behavior. I am requesting a divorce and custody of our only child, along with protection from her threats.”

Tosin responded, “Our fights stem from food issues. He refused to provide adequate food allowance, giving us only peanuts to buy cooked meals, which was not enough. Although he helped me start businesses, I used the proceeds to feed us because he often starved us. I even cooked meals, but he accused me of infidelity. I agree to the divorce but ask for custody of our daughter and that he remains responsible for her feeding, education, and healthcare.”

After hearing both parties, the court president, Mrs. S.M. Akintayo, adjourned the case for judgment.