March 16, 2025

There’s an unspoken set of rules that keeps friendships among women strong—this is known as Girl Code. While the world changes, some principles remain important. Here are ten essential rules to uphold for lasting sisterhood:

No Dating Exes
If your friend has had a serious relationship with someone, he’s off-limits. No exceptions. Respect her past feelings and find someone else.

Always Stay When She’s Uncomfortable
If your friend feels unsafe or uneasy at a party or date, you stay with her. Her safety is your priority—no one else matters at that moment.

Defend Her When She’s Not Around
If someone speaks poorly of your friend in her absence, stand up for her. Protect her reputation as you would want yours protected.

No Public Arguments
If you have a disagreement, keep it private. Do not air your issues online or in front of others. Respect your friendship enough to handle it maturely.

Be Honest, But Kind
If your friend needs to know the truth about her outfit or boyfriend, tell her. Just be sure to do it gently and with care.

Celebrate Each Other’s Successes
When your friend achieves something great, cheer her on! Support each other instead of competing; her success doesn’t take away from yours.

Be Her Go-To in Emergencies
If she needs you at any time, especially during a crisis, answer her call without hesitation. Being there in tough times strengthens your bond.

Help Her Avoid Toxic Relationships
If your friend keeps going back to a harmful ex, remind her of the pain he caused. Be supportive, even if she chooses to return—just be ready to help if things go wrong again.

Keep Her Secrets Safe
When a friend shares something personal, keep it to yourself. Breaking her trust can damage your friendship permanently.

Support Her in Private
If she’s struggling, let her know, but do it privately and kindly. Help her grow without making her feel bad about herself.

Following these rules will help you maintain strong and supportive friendships.